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And one of the main ways that we connect to each other is through physical contact. It releases tons of oxytocin aka the connection hormone that bonds people naturally and dopamine aka the happy chemical.
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The second conversation is about what exactly it is that you are looking for from your cuddle buddy arrangement.
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So first, you have to have the conversation with. Do you think that this is a weird thing to want? Is cuddling normal, healthy, and great? Get comfortable with how you feel about making the request first… and remember, there is nothing strange about wanting physical intimacy with someone in or outside of an intimate relationship.
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Will kissing be allowed? If so, is kissing on the lips only allowed or just on the body? With music or no music?
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Dig into your desires. What is your ideal, best case scenario?
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But for now, just check in with yourself, and get your best case scenario down in writing.
Asking for our needs to be met in any kind of a relationship can be nerve-racking. Filtered through my personal biases, here are the top five places that I think you should search for your potential cuddle buddies.
Friends are great. You might be surprised at their reaction. Old crushes that never went anywhere Similar to the acquaintances, but with a Women seeking nsa Trail of a sexual charge either back then, or still today.
Maybe you bumped into each other at a club years ago… or you matched on OKCupid or Tinder and it fizzled out… or you were both always dating other people whenever one of you happened to be single. Wives want nsa Millwood your history with your old crushes, this might be the perfect opportunity to resurrect their name in your contacts list.
Whatever floats your boat. Personally, I find that something short and sweet works best.
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If that sounds appealing, let me know and we can set something up in the next week or so. Yay progress!
Let your soon-to-be cuddle buddy about all of the things that you laid out as your ideal setup. Treat this stage as the negotiation, getting to know Girls fuck Utah other phase.
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How long did you say you both wanted to cuddle for? Time To Cuddle! Go to town. Enjoy your cuddle session.
Take some deep breaths and settle into it. And remember… have fun!
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Be safe, have fun, be honest, and let that delicious oxytocin flow.
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